37. Self-Love & Marriage with Tamar Field-Gersh

In This Episode Tamar Field-Gersh is a life coach who talks about self-love and how it affects marriage. By knowing ourselves and loving ourselves, we know we can do better for others, especially our husbands. Highlights 00:50 Tamar Field-Gersh is a life coach who works with women and brings out their self-love. 04:09 We often have a difficult time loving ourselves and being okay with who we are but Tamar reassures us that we should be loving ourselves every day, just as we do others. When we work on ourselves and love ourselves more, we can love others even better. 09:03 You would not call your friend the “harsh” things you tell yourself. Our dialogue with ourselves is the juice of life and this where our lives can take a different turn. The moment you take responsibility to love yourself, especially with your marriage, you learn to decide to make yourself happy. 14:13 The Want Match is done in Tamar’s program, where you sit down and write out the different things you want in your marriage. 16:04 There is a difference between demanding and asking in marriage. 22:15 If you want a good life, you be the good one. You don’t have to change. When you are consciously deciding for yourself, to stay married and committed, you are choosing to be good. 29:25 Our bodies can show us if something is a truth or a lie just by the way you feel. 31:44 Tamar shares how self-love affected her marriage. 37:19 Sometimes we forget that our kids see through everything. We teach our kids respect by acting on self-love and applying it to our marriage.  Links Tamar Field-Gersh: Instagram | Facebook FLOW Mastermind - A Business Mastermind for an Integrated Life FLY Mastermind - A Marriage Mastermind for a Fulfilling Life 5 Surprising Ways to Improve Your Marriage Marriage Breakthrough Retreat Let’s Connect! Connected for Real is on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn For more information about Connected for Real, visit the website! Let’s Work Together! Join the FLOW Mastermind - A Business Mastermind for an Integrated Life or the FLY Mastermind - A Marriage Mastermind for a Fulfilling Life! Subscribe to the PodcastSpotify | Google Podcasts | Apple Podcasts REBBETZIN BAT-CHEN GROSSMAN Welcome to the Connected For Real Podcast! I’m Rebbetzin Bat-Chen Grossman, a marriage coach for women in business, and my mission is to bring God’s presence into your life, into your marriage, and into your business. Let’s get started. The following is one of the many conversations I had with experts and professionals about real life and how it affects marriage. Let me know your takeaways on Instagram or Facebook, @connectedforreal. Enjoy. REBBETZIN BAT-CHEN GROSSMAN And we are live. Welcome to everyone. I am Rebbetzin Bat-Chen Grossman from connectedforreal.com and this is Tamar Field-Gersh, tell us who you are. TAMAR FIELD-GERSH Hello everybody. I am TAMAR FIELD-GERSH, and I am a life coach working with lots of amazing women out there. Tell you more about that later. REBBETZIN BAT-CHEN GROSSMAN I love it. Okay so, we are talking about self-love today because that's tomorrow's thing, and I wanted to really get it to the next level. What does that mean in regards to our marriage? So first tell us self-love. What's the definition? How do you explain it? What is it? TAMAR FIELD-GERSH Okay. So yeah, so I definitely I will I guess I will tell a little bit more about my non-niche niche situation. I am a life coach as I mentioned, and I work and I really I’m kind of niche free as I explained to my friend before we hopped in, because I really just really love working with anybody and everybody who is so open to transformation, and just wants to who has a good life, and they want to fantastic life, but more specifically, what I really love—who I really love working with in particular is, other mama[s], like mama entrepreneurs, and women who are really wanting to create more self-lov...