178. Unleash Your Superpower

Did you miss my training: "How to Stop Fighting With Your Husband About Your Business?" In this episode we will go over some of the highlights, and I will tell you all about how to unleash your superpower! The gift that G-d gave you is meant to be used, not pushed to the side or pushed down by anyone else. If you are sick of feeling like your dreams and goals will never get actualized because your husband or other parts of your life are holding you back, this episode is for you! 

Plus listen to this episode to find out all about my coaching program and the special bonus I created which is only available until March 31st! 

 Welcome to the Connected For Real podcast. I'm Rebbetzin Bat-Chen Grossman, a marriage coach for women in business. And my mission is to bring God's presence into your life, into your marriage and into your business. Let's get started. 

 We are live.  Welcome everyone to the Connected for Real podcast. I am so excited to be here today with a solo episode. I have something very important to tell you. I ran a training a free training this week called How to Stop Fighting with Your Husband about Your Business, and. It was powerful, but what happened after that was even more powerful because suddenly because of the training and everything that I put together in my mind and all the puzzle pieces that had to come together in order to create that training.  Suddenly something inside me sparked and sort of exploded, and I had a breakthrough that I had to share with you, so.  Before we get started, I just want you to know that if you are on the fence and you've been listening for a while and you're like, one day I'll work with her.

And I hope, and I wish, and like you know it, it's something that I am like sitting around waiting for that's just like fall onto my lap. This is a good time to join because if you join before. March 31st, I think is the deadline, right? Like if you join before it turns April you get.  Two bonuses. One bonus is extra time with the program because Passover is in the middle and I know that you're not gonna have time to like sit and binge on everything.

Maybe you will, maybe I am just assuming, but I wanna give you extra time because I feel like I would want extra time if there was a holiday  smack in the middle of my coaching. So you are getting extra time with the program so that you don't feel like you lost out. And, and this is something that I've never, ever done before, and I want you to know before I even start talking about my breakthrough and everything that's been going on. You are getting an extra whole session, and I'm calling it a pre-pass over peace session because I want you to  meet right away.  After our discovery call, we could schedule right away before Passover if  hopefully there's enough time in your schedule if it works out for you  to create peace right now, like to be able to pull.

All of the different parts of the situation that you're in  to suddenly turn it around and create that breakthrough for you right before Passover so that you are going into the energy of newness with all of that capacity to contain it. Okay,  so those are the two big.  Bonuses that are happening right now and are expiring on March 31st.

Please, please, please make sure to schedule your discovery call as soon as possible so that you can take advantage of the amazing bonuses. Somebody asked on a technical level, if you schedule before March 31st. But the scheduled session itself, or like the scheduled discovery call is after. Is that okay?

And yes, the answer is yes. If you don't find a good time on my schedule and you're like, oh, March 31st, there's not enough slots. I know a lot of people are trying to get in, so just pick whatever available appointment is. My calendar and I'll give you the bonus as long as you scheduled before March 31st.

Okay. Like the date of clicking schedule.  So let's get into why you are fighting with your husband about your business, because it's a big deal.  You know, I just wrote an email today and hopefully you're on my email list and if you're not, make sure you get on it. Just go onto my website connected for real, and find any place to put in your email and you will be on my email list. 

There is  an experience that I feel is universal for women in business in particular, and that is the constant rubbing against.  The two worlds, the marriage and the business and how you could sit in your business and be  super focused and doing something and then the back of your mind, like at the corner of your ear, there's this thing like, you know, is my husband looking at my back,  being resentful?

Or like, is something going on outside this door that is  making me antsy? You know,  there are these feelings that we have, antennas that we own, that feed all these thoughts about.  What is my husband thinking about me right now?  How is he judging what I am doing? Am I making enough money to make this worth it for him?

That he sees me as valuable.  All these little things. And when I say them, they sound a little bit like, what is that what I'm really thinking? But like  to me it's just so important to call that out because a lot of the fighting is about. Waiting for that approval, waiting for my husband to see and really hold me and support me and cheerlead me. 

Is that even a word? Being a cheerleader to cheerlead. Okay. Whatever. Cheer me on. And also there's this frustration that I'm holding it all and I'm doing it all. And like when I'm in my business, I have to think about my marriage and my kids and you know, peace and stuff. But also when I'm in the. Home doing chores and doing things like, why don't I feel as excited and why do I feel so  icky about doing regular things and why do I feel like I actually belong doing bigger things?

And  this is not really making me light up to say  it lightly. So there is a rubbing there too of like.  I just feel like I enjoy being at work more. I enjoy being, you know, seen and heard and appreciated when people are paying me and seeing my value, and I don't really appreciate when I am, you know, I.

Sort of not, not doing that. So it creates a little bit of an escape. Your business becomes your escape, your safe haven, the place where you feel like you could be your real self, but  then it always rubs off the wrong way when you are not a hundred percent with this,  where, you know, with this balance, so. 

One of the things I talked about in the training is that we fight  because  there's something worth fighting for.  Okay. And  this is a real statement and you know, I just had a meeting with someone about a collaboration and she said, you are really bold, like you are saying things that nobody else is going to be able to say without getting, you know, like, Hey, what's going on?

But yeah,  that's what I'm here to do. And that's also what I'm here to help you do.  And this is what we're talking about is. We're fighting because there's something in our gut calling us, telling us this is what you're meant to do and it's it's coming from God. God put that in you. He's calling you to be your best version of yourself because that's what you are here to do.

You are here on purpose,  and when you aren't owning that, that's when it starts to. Rubbed the wrong way. Right. That's when you have to get help from outside to sharpen it and to sort of  help you find yourself. So my daughter was recently interviewing me and it was very cute because her high school

had them interview someone who you think is awesome and you get an extra five points if it's a parent or a grandparent because they want to encourage them to actually talk to their own family.  And so she picked me, which is so nice, and she asked me, what is the meaning of life? And that was like the big thing that they had to look at and look for.

You know, there was a bunch of questions, what's the meaning of life? How do you find the meaning of life? How. Did you find your meaning of life and what would you tell me in order for me to find my meaning of life? It was a very good interview because it helped me tell her and almost felt like  for the first time she's finally hearing what I've been talking about for years on the podcast and in my business, but the way she asked it and the way, because

she's so sharp.  She, she  really took it out of me in the best way possible. And I thought, isn't that amazing? If I didn't have you to like, you know, sort of like, pick on me to tell it to you this way,  I wouldn't be able  to say it like that. You know? It was so deep. It was so powerful. And  by the way, I told her, I'm like, you have to write this interview out and  publish it, because it is so, so powerful.

Now you have to know about my 16-year-old. She wants to publish a book or a bunch of them. She's been writing and she's so creative and she's so awesome. So like, if this thing gets published,  I'll be so excited. But this is exactly what we were talking about and this happens also with our husbands when he comes and buds heads against us. It's not because he's doing it on purpose,  it is because that is his job.  His job as your husband is to be there for you to sharpen yourself, to point out for you what you don't see in yourself that needs sharpening. So it's almost like, you know, you need two knives so you could sharpen the knife, right?

Because it, you're sharpening this knife, but you also are using the second knife as like the sharpening thing. I don't know why that came up to me, but my  father, is a  a,  which means like the rabbi who slaughters  the meat. And so I growing up always saw him doing this with the knives.

It was like, you know, these big.  Awesome.   And he was sharpening them. And he used to just like randomly in the middle  of the park, if, let's say we had a dull knife, he would, you know, sharpen it  to be better because that skill.  And I think that that is exactly why God put us here in this world and gave us a husband to do that for us.

Now we always know it as. The wife is there to do it for her husband, right? So what is the wife Azaro in Hebrew? That means she's there to help also to be like against him. Why? Because you need somebody to like, you know, give you contra when you're trying to push and find the boundary. You need somebody to be there to help you, but also to be there to push  right?

And it's  nice that we've all grown up knowing that that is what a wife is, but hey, that is what every human is for each other. We are here to help each other and to give each other that contra that we need in order to find that deeper, more exact way to be ourselves. And when we're talking about fighting.

You know, stop fighting with your husband about your business  was the title I think of why is it so hard for us to be our authentic selves in this world is because  for all of the years growing up, I don't know about you, but I was told don't show off.

Don't make other people think that you're a somebody. Like, just be normal. Just, you know, keep your stuff to yourself. If you're better than everyone else, don't go telling them. If you are, you know, talented at something, don't go showing it off because it's just not nice.  And so you just sort of learn to hide behind the, the normalness.

You know, you're just like, it's fine, whatever.  I don't have to share that with everybody. But then again, I don't have to share that with anybody. And it becomes this  hidden secret. And you know, they say if you want to work. On your self-development, you should open up a business. But I say just anything.

Be a mother, be a wife. Do anything in this world, and you will be working on yourself because that is what God created the world for to help us, develop ourselves. And a lot of what happens when you open up a business is you have to go deep and you have to find your why, and you have to understand what you're doing this for.

It's not just about the money and it's not just about being famous and  it's not just about, you know, all these great things about being a legacy and all that stuff. It's really about getting in touch with that unique gift that you got. There is a superpower that God put inside you that he wants you to serve the world with.

And if you can't face that and say, I have this superpower, I am doing this for that, I am here because then. You're going to be very mushy and very fuzzy and very unclear,  and when you are not able to be honest and bold about your message, about why you're here, about what you're doing, that's when all these things are going to start getting at you.

Like, your husband's going to get on your nerves with silly questions, like, why are you doing it this way? Or Why are you paying for coaching? Or why are you, you know doing this sale? Or Why are you launching this way?  He thinks that he knows better and he's trying to like micromanage your money  and your decisions and the way that you run the business.

And you're like, could you stop?  And all of that is happening because he is pushing you to stand up a little bit taller, strengthen your vertebrae. I don't know if that's a thing, but like you're, you're. Spine, right? Have like a stronger spine. I'm like thinking in Hebrews that that came out and it was like, no, that's not how you say it in English.

But anyway, you get what I'm saying? Stand up tall, own your stuff, know what you're worth, know why you're here. And then when he has a question, you can actually answer it without going into a whole fight  ' cause you know.  Right, so the contra is only there for you to sharpen, but as soon as you sharpen, as soon as you hear the question, or as soon as you understand that something isn't sharp enough, that something is fuzzy, that something isn't clear, you don't have to go into a whole loop of fight.

You could just pause for a second and say, yeah, let me think about this and I'll get back to you  and really hone in on what is my superpower  now. This is much easier said than done. Right? You're telling me become authentic, find your purpose, know what you're here to do, get in touch with your superpower and everything will be fine.

And actually,  and those are very big and scary things to do, especially alone. And that is why I have my program, right? That is why I created my private coaching. So I used to have masterminds and I used to have groups, and I loved that, and the women who were in it loved it too. But what I found was that you have such a unique situation and the way that your marriage and the way that your business and the way that you are in this world with God, with yourself, with everybody,  that for you to be able to get the most out of our time together. 

We're gonna go deep, we're going to go one-on-one and we're going to really crack this thing.  I don't do superficial, I just dunno how I can't stand up there for too long. Like, you know, when people start having like this, like, oh, so what's up? How are you? How are you? Yeah, the weather, whatever.

It's nice. But I'm like, okay, could we talk about something really  substantial?  And that's something that you, you know, if you know me for any length of time, you will know that I.  Go very deep. And I also am very connected to God. So when I go deep, God is coming with me and we are lighting up all of those very hidden places.

 I don't wanna say dark, because they're not the dark stuff. It's not, I don't, I don't go into the negativity. I'm very positive. It's the place  that has that spark that has been hidden and protected because it's just not safe to say what you really think. It's not safe to have an opinion. It's not safe for you to show up in this way.

It's not safe for you to want this,  but I wanna tell you that's wrong.  It is safe. And the reason why we've been hiding from all these things is because.  We wanna make peace. We're nice people. We don't wanna make fights, we don't wanna get on people's case. 

So because we're so nice and because we're so awesome, we have learned to just be okay with moving back. You know, just, I'll just like give you more space. I'll allow the peace to happen because I gave in. And. It's really nice to be that way and you know, it's celebrated, you know, I see my kids  in daycare or whatever and, and gone, their teacher will say, oh, isn't it nice that you gave in?

Yay. Good job. And what we're teaching our kids is just given, given, given.  That did. That's funny. It sounds like I'm speaking Hebrew and English at the same time, but you're gonna just have to, you know, flow with me 'cause I am you know, trilingual give in is nice in theory  and we see it working because there is peace when one person gives in.

But it is not a long time, long term strategy. It is actually really, really bad for your marital peace. It is really bad for the harmony in your home. It is really, really terrible for your marriage.  For your relationship, for your intimacy? It is terrible because what happens is that you can do this once, twice, three times for a time, for, you know, a period of, of  right now.

Maybe it's not the right time for me to like really stand up and say what I want, but like one day it's gonna work out, but like when it starts to get too long, when you start to feel like you are not getting any space, you are shrinking, you are not breathing enough air because everyone else needs it,  that's when you know there's a problem. 

And that's when you start to like snap at your husband for the silliest things because he, he just like TA touched this gigantic bubble of resentment and pain.  All the years that you've just been pulling back.  And then you wonder why you don't have a, a relationship that's connected on a deep level with your husband because you don't feel safe to say what you really want, because you need to constantly be worrying about what he wants.

You don't feel safe to go after the things you.  That are important to you because you've always made room for everyone else. So now suddenly the fights are about, ah, I just want my space already. I just want my air already. I just wanna do the thing. I just Right. And that's when you know you are fighting.

Something that is worth fighting for, but you're not doing it the right way.  Fighting is not going to actually get you any closer to creating the peace and to getting  your way. It's going to feel. Wrong because you're not in balance. So the balance that I want is not that you go and be like, hide, hide, hide, and one day flip over to like, that's it.

I have  decided I'm not hiding anymore. And now I'm just  going at it. I want  📍 you to back up a little bit and center yourself  if this is what God wants for me  and if this matters. Because this is my purpose. This is, you know, you can't hold it in. You cannot hide it for that long, right? There's a calling, there's a thing. There's just bursting out of you. It is bigger than you. That's the thing. So if I am.  Realizing that there's something calling me and there's something bigger than me that wants to just explode out of me. The best way to do it, and it's fine if you went through the fighting and the whole, like trying to find my balance thing, but the most important thing for you right now is to just pause.

And create balance is pause and bring God into your business and your marriage and your life and yourself and just, you know, just let's find balance. Let's realign. Let's create the authenticity from a place of groundedness and your ability to contain the breakthrough because there is a breakthrough waiting to happen. 

The fighting is a way for your brain to say, let's just waste our our time and energy over here fighting so that we don't actually have to move forward and create that breakthrough. But you want to be making substantial money. You want to be successful, you want your marriage to thrive, like you want all these things, and instead you're staying small because your brain is messing with you.

So the fighting is not serving you, it is serving as a distraction. You want to follow the calling and become the person that you're being called to become. You want to be part of this bigger thing that is awaiting you, and all you need is  the help to get there, the hand that is going to hold you and say, we can do this.

I'm right here with you. Let's do it. And that is what I have found to be my superpower. 

  Hey, before we continue the episode, I want to ask you something. Are you ready to get answers from God directly, feel more in love with your husband and more supported than ever? Run the business of your dreams without having to sacrifice any other part of your life? That is exactly what my one-on-one private coaching is for, and I want to invite you, just you and me.

For a free deep dive discovery call, this is a 60 minute free call where I ask you lots of questions and we extract the three main things that are holding you back. I then put together a personalized plan for you where I create a roadmap of recommendations. With practical steps,  the call is free and so valuable in itself.

So go book yours today. Now back to the show. 

 So I have. Exercises that are really, really fun for you to really go deep into that authenticity. I call it awaken your authenticity. I.  Found my why when I did this exercise a long time ago with  Dr. Ozzy Koic, she did this for us and it was so life changing.

I was like, why are you in business to, you know, to help women to this, to that blah, blah, blah. And at the end of the whole conversation, what came out is that I am in business to bring God's presence home,  home. To our home. Right, and to your home. Like the home. That's why I specialize in marriage, because that is the core of the home, and I want that unit to be super strong because that is what creates peace,  but also home to ourselves.

Because when God dwells within us, then our experience is completely different. We see life through a different lens. We experience the world. On a completely different level. And  the third part of bringing  God's presence home  is home to his home. Right? So I am very much working in all those parts in the  global universal type of like  when we all.

Rise, everybody rises with us. And so you can help one lady and she rises and her husband comes along and he starts to thrive and their kids are coming along and everybody who is in touch with them and attached to them is coming along. And suddenly you have an entire nation who is. On a higher level and ready for something bigger.

Right? So  that is a big goal and that is a scary thing to say. And I'm able to say it because I've gone through this process with my coaches, with my and my journey, and I want you to have that because that is the secret to how to stop fighting. That is the secret to how to create peace. That is the secret to how to. 

Break through all of those limitations and all of these walls and all of these layers that are holding you captive and holding you suffocating inside yourself. Okay, so  that wasn't deep at all, was it?  Like now that I finished talking, I'm like, oh my gosh, I think I took them too deep and now they're like blown away. 

So I love you and I think you can handle it. You are capable of going deep and realizing that, you know, all of the superficial stuff of like, oh, my husband's, you know, annoying and he's fighting and he's a narcissist, and he's, you know, so critical and he's negative and, and, and, and  those are all legit because that's the world you're living in.

But I invite you to come out of that world and out of that narrative and out of that situation and.  Create a new reality. Now I have women who have signed up for me specifically so that they can, you know, get help with the narcissism, the negativity, the criticism, and, and all of that stuff. And that's great because they actually get results and they see their lives are changing and their husbands are reacting differently, and things are actually like falling into place. 

So it's awesome that that is your door to creating this work, but I also want you to realize that we're not just like, I have a friend who works with  food.  Mindset stuff. And she says, I, I just don't want people to come in thinking that, that their goal is to lose weight. You know, I just like, somebody will come and say like, I just wanna lose X amount of pounds.

And she says, yeah, that's nice, but like, I want for you to have. A really great life. I want you to feel alive. I want you to breathe better. I want your body to, you know, be able to not be on a rollercoaster with all the sugar and the things and whatever. I want you to love sitting down to eat. And the lady is like, I don't care about those things.

I just wanna lose the weight.  So. I wanna, you know, same here, same here. I know that what you want is to have peace with your husband for that, you know, for him to stop being negative, for him to stop being this way for, you know, the fights to, to end. That's all legit. And that's probably going to happen when we go deep and start to strengthen, and straighten and align all the parts that are under the ground and under the, you know, under the surface. 

I don't want you coming in thinking that, you know, I'm just gonna sign up and I'm gonna fix my husband and it's gonna be great, you know, because it is the result that comes out of working with me. But it is not the only thing you should focus on.  Okay, so let's talk about a couple of. Recent questions that came in that I want to address because I think that it's really important to talk about this. Number one is I'm not ready to work so hard right now.  Like the hard work is, is a big scary thing. It's like if I sign up for coaching, it means I have to actually  show up.

It means I have to do the work. It means I have to, you know, blah, blah, blah, blah. I have a lot of things to do and I wanna just stop you right there. It is not true. It is not true. I wanna tell you something about  healing that this will help you understand. I was talking to someone last week.

And she said, yeah, but you know, time heals. And I said, no time  by itself does not heal.  Time on its own does not heal. You know, you can have people 20 years after a trauma and they still did not heal. It still feels like it was yesterday, like it still happening. It is not time alone that will heal.

And not only that,  it is  not.  Necessary for time to be part of the healing. Yes, work and time together create a very nice healing process.  But also can you connect to God.  And realize that God is capable of blinking his eye and snapping his fingers. Obviously God does not have eyes and fingers. Okay, please don't take me there.

But in a blink of an eye and blo, you are healed. And it's like what just happened? Because we think that it has to be a certain way, so we make it be a certain way and we drag it. What if God is more powerful than that, and what if God can show you that, oh, I'm done with this. It's no longer necessary.

Great. Now I have the skills I need. Now I know what to do, and now I have the support and now everything is falling into place. And oh my gosh, why did I think it was going to be this hard? So your brain is actually talking you out of getting the help and out of going into this amazing transformation because you're lazy and you're like, I don't wanna do it because it's gonna be hard work.

And that's. You know, the timing is wrong and it's not blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And I'm my energy level and every other reason in the book why it's just not the right time to do this. And I wanna tell you, it's actually the opposite. Now is the best time because now  energetically in the world, we are right before Passover.

This is  when you should be signing up for that. This is when you should be  committing to yourself to break through. To be done with all of this nonsense to live a new life. And I have seen it. I created this program to be three months because I have seen the results in three months. I actually have seen people have results in less than three months, and then we just have fun, you know, sort of like implementing new things and other things.

But this is something that is so doable and it does not have to be hard. Most of your investment is one hour. With me on Zoom, that is the most important thing I want from you and all the other extra stuff that I give you. I have WhatsApp support,  and if you don't have WhatsApp, you get email support. I have all of the trainings and all of the sessions, and there's a meditation library.

There's a lot of stuff you get in this three month period but really all you need is to be able to show up for a session just for an hour, just on Zoom. And not even know what's going to happen.  Not even have to control it and be like, this is what's going to be and this is how it's going to happen, and this is what's going to break through.

It's like, can you just show up and let it be easy?  And I teach, this is what I teach my clients all the time, is let it be easy because God  knows how to do that. He is creative like that. He is the creator and he is able to shorten processes and delete problems and just completely turn around a situation because. 

So can you connect to God and allow him to show you how to collapse time, how to create a new reality, and stop trying to control it and hold it and like, you know, be in charge. Stop it. Stop. Okay, so I'm calling you out on this and I love you because I love you and that's why I'm telling you this.  Ugh.  I hated when my mother told me that.

Ah, I'm telling you this because I love you, so I'm sorry if this rubbed you the wrong way. It just did for me.  I think this is so funny. Anyway, so number two can you work with me if you're not married? No, I only work with married women. This is a very clear  boundary for me. I have worked with women in all stages, in all ages, and I found that the women that I am meant to help, that God wants me to help are the women who are married.

Now, here's the thing, most of the women who I help are older than me.  This is really interesting for me.  I love it. I think it's really awesome in percentages. I would say 80% of my clients are older than me, so I just turned 40. So you guys all know my age because if you're following me, you know, on Instagram you saw my pictures holding a, you know, the 40 balloons,  not 40 balloons, the four zero balloons.

But anyway, most of my clients are in their fifties, their sixties, even above, because there is a certain level of readiness. You've already tried everything else. You're like, I did the marriage classes, I did the courses. I went to the therapy, I did the counseling. I dragged my husband to this and that and the other.

I read the books and I got all the advice and I just can't crack it. And then they end up here and they're like,  wow.  That's so cool. That was the first time I had a conversation with my husband where he actually looked me in the eye and said that, right? It was like these things actually happen and that's why when people say, oh, it's too late for me, I'm like, it is never too late for you.

It is never too late because there's something so powerful about committing. To yourself at any age. Okay? So if you're younger than me, don't worry about it. I'm here to help you. I love you and I am accepting you  in open arms, but I also want you to know that you know, it really does not matter. It does not matter.

You could be like newly married and just realizing that like you think you made a mistake and I don't know what I'm doing, and oh my gosh, and dah, dah, dah, dah and that story, and that's okay. We can deal with that too. But also, I've been married for six years and I can't deal with my husband anymore and he's, you know, making me crazy for all these years.

And now I'm  getting to the end of my, so come, let's talk. Okay, so what's going to happen now is you're going to see down below somewhere. Link to schedule discovery call because that is the best way to find out if this is right for you. I am giving you this opportunity to meet with me for a discovery call.

It's 60 minutes. What we do is we get to the bottom of what it is you really want and what is the goal that is going to be the thing we're going after during the three   📍 month period that we're in.  And then I'm going to give you the roadmap. I'm going to tell you how we're going to do that and invite you to work with me if you are ready.

I. Great. If you're not ready and this isn't for you, and something doesn't feel right, that's also great. I am doing this because just the discovery call is enough to give you a breakthrough, and I am here to serve, and I am here to help you no matter what. So this discovery call is so valuable that it's worth.

Every penny of your free time.  It's not, obviously your time is not free, but like it's free so you lose nothing. You gain everything. Okay? So I invite you to come and schedule a discovery call.

So now let's talk about my program. My program is called Balance for God's Sake, and it is a three month private coaching program. Why is it called Balance for God's Sake? Because balance is exactly what I help you do. It is my specialty to help you create balance between your marriage and your business, between your career and your relationships between.

You know these two parts of you that are pulling you apart, and how do you create balance? Ask any yoga instructor. It's by strengthening your core, right? If you had to do a balance pose, you would need to first strengthen your core and pull everything in. That is what we're doing. That is what we're talking about when we're saying your authenticity, your uniqueness, your superpower, your ability to really hone in on all the parts of you and put them together to align and create something that is so much stronger than just you trying to use one or two muscles, right?

So there is something really powerful about your core.  That is what's going to create  the balance.  Now take that a step further balance. For God's sake, you are creating balance because it matters to you that these two things work out right for God's sake. Hello, I am. Running my business because I want to serve God in this way with all of these gifts that he gave me.

And I am running this family and, and, you know, nurturing and, and loving and creating this atmosphere in the home because I want this. For God's sake.  This is what God put me here to do, to continue the chain, to be a mother, to be a wife, to be so, hello. What's going on now? Why are they fighting? Why are they pulling me apart?

And the answer is,  they're not meant to. They're not supposed to. Something here is out of balance. If they are pulling you apart. Because  when you do both for God's sake, God helps you align.  The two and all of you and really hold it all together. He is the unifier of everything that's going on in your life.

And that is what we're working on by the way. So like, you know, people are like, what do we do in your sessions? I'm like, we get really, really, really clear on what God wants from you.  We get really, really awesome answers from God.  We free ourselves from the limitations and the baggage and the weight that has been draining your energy,  and this way you could just go and do God's will without all of that extra baggage.

Okay.  So that is what the program is called, and that was a long way of just saying balance for God's sake. A three month private coaching program. But you know, there's just so much there that I can't just say that. Private means it's one-on-one coaching means that I'm the coach and you are coming and we are going to do this together, and I'm holding your hand the whole time and I'm available for you.

 I took all the parts into account. I want you to be held in all the ways. So there is the sessions. So you get six one-on-one sessions with me. And by the way, because of Passover, you get that extra free  bonus session. The pre Passover piece session, make sure you take advantage of that is a very powerful session. 

So that comes out to seven if you wanna think of it that way.  And you get the support of me being in your pocket anytime something is going on and you know something isn't right or something is like that. I don't care if it's with your husband, if it's with your kids, if your mother-in-law, if, if your sister, if you don't feel like getting up in the morning, if something is off.

I'm here for you. This all legit because I am here holding you through this experience so you can leave me a message. You know   I woke up on the wrong side of the bed today. I'm feeling really annoyed. I'm resentful. My husband just did this. I can't figure out what to do next. Whatever. Okay, all that.

You send it to me and you're like, this is  what's going on with me? This is what I'm experiencing, and I'm going to leave you back a message and tell you exactly what you need to do. And it's amazing. People are like, just the WhatsApp support was enough, right? I had one lady who did not feel comfortable going on Zoom and meeting me, so I said, fine, let's just do WhatsApp support.

And just through WhatsApp support, she was able to get so far.  So far that she then decided to start having the sessions  and create even more  of the transformation. But the first three months were completely just WhatsApp support and it was amazing. So I don't want you to underestimate the amount of clarity that you can get by telling someone what's going on and getting. 

Almost immediate feedback. Okay? Sometimes it takes me a couple of minutes whatever, you know,  if it's in the middle of the night, it could be some hours, but I usually get back to you really quickly with what can you do? How can you change it up? How can you react? How can you think, how can you feel?

What can you, you know, whatever. How do you connect?  So we have the sessions and then we have WhatsApp support. You also have my entire curriculum. So there are a bunch of sessions that you don't have to do anything, but you get to look through and see what's calling you. There are things there that are just so powerful.

These are sessions that are recordings of the Masterminds. So when I was giving Masterminds in groups,  this was.  These were real sessions that  created breakthroughs for these women, and you will actually hear their experience and their processings. Don't worry. Everything is blocked out and we change the voices.

So you don't know who they are, but you can experience what they're experiencing and you can hear their questions and you can get  so much value out of this. Okay, so that's the sessions. There's trainings. There's a bunch of trainings that I have created about sales, about webinars, about how to find your thing about the work by, by and Katie, about intimacy, about time management, about anything.

Just go and look through the trainings and you will find it. And if you don't wanna go there and you're like, ah, I don't have time for anything. That's fine. And if I'm talking to you and I see that there is a training, that's exactly what you need. I'm gonna tell you this is, you know, something that you should watch in the next two weeks  and you could, and you don't have to.

And that's okay. I really don't want you to fall into that like  a feeling of like, oh, it's too much. I won't be able to do it. No, no, no, no. That's what I'm trying to explain to you and I hope I'm being clear. It really is not complicated. Okay. I'm giving you a lot because I love you and I want you to have the access to anything you want,  and I want you to also know yourself and know what you need.

Okay, so that's your responsibility is really holding that space for yourself of like, this is what I need right now. I need the space, or I need the time with you and I need, you know, to be able to just have direct access, or I need you to leave me alone and I'm gonna go watch these things. And, and then I'll tell you what I have questions about.

And I've had  that with one woman, by the way. Who did not even use the WhatsApp support at all. She would go and listen to the trainings and the sessions, and then only after each training she would send me a message updating me, which one she was listening to and what was her takeaways and how this applies to her right now, and what do I think, you know, do I have anything to add?

And it was just so much fun to have somebody like that. And if that's you, that's cool. Okay. So I am here giving you all the things. I want you to be able to, you know, take from the buffet what you like and what you need and what serves you. Okay.  And. The last thing is the meditation library. There is an entire library of meditations, and they have parentheses of how long they are.

So let's say, you know, get out of your own way is the meditation name, and then parentheses four minutes, 37 seconds. So you know that if you have four minutes and 37 seconds right now, you could turn this on and do it and it's gonna be great, but. There are some that are like 20 minutes. There are some that are, you know, 15 minutes.

It's so helpful to know how long they are just in the title. Because then you just go through it and decide either by the title or by the time you have or whatever it is. But these meditations are powerful. And the way I do these meditations is I record the meditations that I create in the moment with my clients and then my assistant just, you know, strips all of noise and anything that the client said, so that there's no way you could know who it is. 

She adds music and she puts it into the meditation library. So by the time you get to watch it or you know, listen to it, really  we  are having that experience of having me right there doing the meditation with you. And it's so cool how exact they are and what pearls of wisdom and nuggets of gold come out of these meditations is.

Extremely exciting. In the training when I went live and I said, okay, okay, let's do a meditation. Somebody wrote, I love your meditations. I, this is the reason why I came. And I was like, yay,  thank you. So it's very exciting,  this entire experience, the three month coaching with me, which by the way becomes longer because of Passover and also you get an extra session.

So now is the best time to sign up just an FYI.  This whole experience costs $2,500. It is a very fair price for coaching for three months, for all the things you get. And I know because I've been here for a long time, and I actually even lowered the price. There was a certain point that it was way higher and I lowered it because I wanted to  get to that tipping point of like the exact amount,  $2,500 and  there is a payment plan.

So if you need it to be a payment plan of five months, you can do that. If you need it to be over a year, you can do that. Go and check it out. All the details are going to be in the website connected for real.com/private coaching.  You can read all about it, you can watch all the testimonials, you can hear all the amazing things that happened, but.

Bottom line. I want you to realize that this is for you and that this is your time, and that you are being called to step into that bigger than yourself thing that is calling you to really sharpen your uniqueness, your  gifts, your superpower.  We need you to be in that awesomeness.  So  that is the end for today.

I love you all. Have a wonderful, wonderful rest of the week and  sending you love from Israel. Don't forget to be connected for real.

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