Bonus Release "Teen Parenting in the Midst of Divorce & Strategies for Successful Co-Parenting" with Rachel King
Parenting Teens: Advice Redefined for Today's Complex World
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- Key Points
- The podcast "Teen Minds Redefined" discusses the impact of divorce on teenagers and offers support to parents.
- The host, Cheryl Pankhurst, interviews divorce lawyer Rachel King, who shares her personal experience of being a child of divorce and how it influenced her career in family law.
- Rachel emphasizes the importance of therapy for individuals going through divorce to handle the emotional rollercoaster and to avoid projecting negative feelings onto their children.
- She also advises clients to have realistic expectations about the divorce process and to understand that their feelings towards their ex-spouse are not the same as their children's feelings towards the other parent.
- The speaker discusses the challenges of divorce and co-parenting
- They emphasize the importance of financial independence and communication in the process
- They address common misconceptions about the legal process of divorce
- Overall, the speaker encourages self-awareness and understanding in navigating divorce and co-parenting.
- The cost of living is increasing, leading to more families needing dual incomes
- Both parents often believe they are the better parent, but it's important for children to have a relationship with both parents
- Even if a parent is a "deadbeat" or has mental health issues, children still need to have some kind of relationship with them
- It's not the role of one parent to teach their children about the faults of the other parent
- Mediation can be helpful for custody and visitation agreements, but both parties need to be willing to cooperate
- It is advised to reach an agreement with the other parent, even if it's not ideal, rather than letting a judge make the decision, as it can cause hostility and conflict in co-parenting.
- The role of a child's attorney is to be the voice of the child in court, but their involvement varies by jurisdiction and is typically not required in family law cases.
- When it comes to parenting teenagers, it's important to remember that they are still children and may not want to be involved in their parents' divorce.
- Encouraging extracurricular activities for teenagers should be a conversation between the child and the other parent, not the custodial parent.
- When going through a divorce, it is important to protect your assets and financial interests by gathering all financial records and documents.
- When hiring a lawyer, it is important to trust them and ensure they are honest about the potential outcomes of the case.
- It is recommended to have a therapist, emotional support system, and legal advice during a divorce.
- It is advised not to start dating too soon during a divorce, as it can lead to emotional complications.
- The divorce process should not be unnecessarily prolonged and steps should be taken to move towards a resolution, including preparing for trial if necessary.
- The speaker discusses the selfish tendencies that arise during divorce and how it can bring out controlling and self-serving behavior in people
- They suggest that forcing a trial can make the other party settle, leading to a quicker end to the divorce case
- The speaker emphasizes the cost and time-saving benefits of going to trial early on in the divorce process
- They also promote their podcast "Gables Down, Voices Up" and their remote legal services available in California, Kentucky, Arizona, and Texas
Rachel King. Lawyer. Veteran. Entrepreneur. Wife. Mother. Triathlete. Ultra Marathoner. Yogi. In no particular order.
Rachel King practices law in California, Arizona, Kentucky, and Texas. Her primary location is in Wildomar, California; however, she represents clients nationwide and internationally.
She opened her law firm in 2014 after owning multiple companies and achieving success by taking one to million dollar status. To date Rachel’s firm has helped thousands of people and earns in excess of 7 figures annually.
Rachel is a fierce legal advocate. She has spent years building a reputation as a fighter for clients’ rights in the eyes of the law and giving them a VOICE in the courtroom. Since opening her law firm, King Law Firm Attorneys at Law, Inc., in 2014, Ms. King has been unequivocally dedicated to working with her clients in a way that allows them to understand the legal system, the laws, and the process- to reach their GOAL in court.
Rachel now works primarily as a strategic litigator in Elder Abuse (financial and physical) and undue Influence, Family Law, Conservatorships, Guardianships, and Will and trust Contests. She is a participating member of the Financial Abuse Specialist Team in Orange County and works with Laura’s House to provide assistance to those in Domestic Violence situations.
Rachel regularly speaks on related legal issues. She was a guest on CBS more than once and was featured in LA Weekly as a Top 10 Industry Expert. Rachel has also been highlighted by San Diego Woman Magazine, US Insider, SD Voyager, CANVAS REBEL, and more. She intends to continue to speak publicly to inform and educate in these highly emotional areas of law.
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- Key Points
- The podcast "Teen Minds Redefined" discusses the impact of divorce on teenagers and offers support to parents.
- The host, Cheryl Pankhurst, interviews divorce lawyer Rachel King, who shares her personal experience of being a child of divorce and how it influenced her career in family law.
- Rachel emphasizes the importance of therapy for individuals going through divorce to handle the emotional rollercoaster and to avoid projecting negative feelings onto their children.
- She also advises clients to have realistic expectations about the divorce process and to understand that their feelings towards their ex-spouse are not the same as their children's feelings towards the other parent.
- The speaker discusses the challenges of divorce and co-parenting
- They emphasize the importance of financial independence and communication in the process
- They address common misconceptions about the legal process of divorce
- Overall, the speaker encourages self-awareness and understanding in navigating divorce and co-parenting.
- The cost of living is increasing, leading to more families needing dual incomes
- Both parents often believe they are the better parent, but it's important for children to have a relationship with both parents
- Even if a parent is a "deadbeat" or has mental health issues, children still need to have some kind of relationship with them
- It's not the role of one parent to teach their children about the faults of the other parent
- Mediation can be helpful for custody and visitation agreements, but both parties need to be willing to cooperate
- It is advised to reach an agreement with the other parent, even if it's not ideal, rather than letting a judge make the decision, as it can cause hostility and conflict in co-parenting.
- The role of a child's attorney is to be the voice of the child in court, but their involvement varies by jurisdiction and is typically not required in family law cases.
- When it comes to parenting teenagers, it's important to remember that they are still children and may not want to be involved in their parents' divorce.
- Encouraging extracurricular activities for teenagers should be a conversation between the child and the other parent, not the custodial parent.
- When going through a divorce, it is important to protect your assets and financial interests by gathering all financial records and documents.
- When hiring a lawyer, it is important to trust them and ensure they are honest about the potential outcomes of the case.
- It is recommended to have a therapist, emotional support system, and legal advice during a divorce.
- It is advised not to start dating too soon during a divorce, as it can lead to emotional complications.
- The divorce process should not be unnecessarily prolonged and steps should be taken to move towards a resolution, including preparing for trial if necessary.
- The speaker discusses the selfish tendencies that arise during divorce and how it can bring out controlling and self-serving behavior in people
- They suggest that forcing a trial can make the other party settle, leading to a quicker end to the divorce case
- The speaker emphasizes the cost and time-saving benefits of going to trial early on in the divorce process
- They also promote their podcast "Gables Down, Voices Up" and their remote legal services available in California, Kentucky, Arizona, and Texas
Rachel King. Lawyer. Veteran. Entrepreneur. Wife. Mother. Triathlete. Ultra Marathoner. Yogi. In no particular order.
Rachel King practices law in California, Arizona, Kentucky, and Texas. Her primary location is in Wildomar, California; however, she represents clients nationwide and internationally.
She opened her law firm in 2014 after owning multiple companies and achieving success by taking one to million dollar status. To date Rachel’s firm has helped thousands of people and earns in excess of 7 figures annually.
Rachel is a fierce legal advocate. She has spent years building a reputation as a fighter for clients’ rights in the eyes of the law and giving them a VOICE in the courtroom. Since opening her law firm, King Law Firm Attorneys at Law, Inc., in 2014, Ms. King has been unequivocally dedicated to working with her clients in a way that allows them to understand the legal system, the laws, and the process- to reach their GOAL in court.
Rachel now works primarily as a strategic litigator in Elder Abuse (financial and physical) and undue Influence, Family Law, Conservatorships, Guardianships, and Will and trust Contests. She is a participating member of the Financial Abuse Specialist Team in Orange County and works with Laura’s House to provide assistance to those in Domestic Violence situations.
Rachel regularly speaks on related legal issues. She was a guest on CBS more than once and was featured in LA Weekly as a Top 10 Industry Expert. Rachel has also been highlighted by San Diego Woman Magazine, US Insider, SD Voyager, CANVAS REBEL, and more. She intends to continue to speak publicly to inform and educate in these highly emotional areas of law.