Episode 5: Setting Boundaries and Standards of Excellence

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Hey there, welcome to the 7 Maven Minute Shortcast, your weekly boost of empowering reflections for transformational growth. I'm Jamal, here to share some cool insights to help you grow in your personal journey.

3 quick maven minutes 1. The importance of boundaries. Sometimes when we're really annoyed with other people it's actually because we're not great at setting our own rules and sticking to them. It's super important to know your limits and make sure others know them too. Think about it, when someone bugs you sometimes it's because you didn't tell them your no -go zones. Just like in a game knowing the boundaries makes playing much more fun and less stressful.

So don't be shy to let others know your rules.

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Two, purposeful reading. Make sure the books you're reading match up with your dreams. When they do, reading becomes not just learning, but also super exciting. Imagine your bookshelf is like your personal team of coaches. Pick books that are all about what you want to be great at. And it's like they're cheering you on your way to awesomeness. If you love animals, read about them. If you dream of flying to Mars, read about space.

That way, every book is a step towards your dream.

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Three, accelerating improvement. Learning from what others have already done is like having a speed boost towards success. Read stories, have cool conversations, and look at what history can teach us to zoom ahead. Why make all the mistakes yourself when you can learn from others? It's like getting a map that shows all the shortcuts and pitfalls. Chat with people who know stuff, read books about heroes and geniuses, and see what they did right or wrong. It's like having a secret weapon for getting better at stuff.

Two saved saints.

One, strengthen adversity. Oprah Winfrey once said, don't let getting praised or criticized mess with your head. Getting too caught up in either is not cool. First, think about the times you've been praised. It feels great, right? Like a high five for your soul. But if we start living just for those high fives, we might forget why we're doing what we do in the first place. It's like playing a game just to win trophies.

instead of because you love the game. Now flip that.

Criticism, nobody likes being told they're messing up. But if we get too hung up on every you can't do it or that wasn't good enough, we might just stop trying. We might give up on our dreams because we're too scared of what others think. The real deal is to keep your eyes on your own path. Are you having fun? Are you learning and growing? Are you making stuff you're proud of? That's what really matters. Whether people are clapping or booing, you've got to keep your cool and keep marching to your own beat.

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Two, the essence of success. Steve Jobs taught us, making one super awesome thing is way better than making a bunch of okay stuff. Make things that people just can't stop talking about. Three, daily bread. Philippians 413, NIV. I can do all things through him who gives me strength. This verse is like a superhero's mantra. It's saying, no matter how tough things get, there's a strength inside you, bigger than anything that helps you do amazing stuff.

But it's not just about being able to do stuff. It's about the confidence and the guts to try. It's about having faith that you're not alone in your struggles or your victories. Four, maven mindset. Think about what you're doing right now. Is it pushing you to be your best or is it kind of keeping you stuck? Think of your life like a video game. Every day, you're choosing how to play, right?

Are the choices you're making leveling you up or are they just like hitting the pause button? Are you learning new skills, making cool friends, trying new things, or are you doing the same stuff over and over, not really getting anywhere? If what you're doing isn't helping you become the superhero of your own story, then maybe it's time to switch up your game plan. It's all about asking yourself, am I spending too much time on stuff that doesn't matter? Could I be doing things that are more fun?

and get me closer to my goals. Remember, every choice, no matter how small, is like a step on a path. You've got the power to change your story. It doesn't mean you have to do big, crazy things all the time. It's about those small, everyday choices that add up to something huge. It's about making sure that what you do everyday is fun, exciting, and gets you a little closer to being the best version of yourself. Remember, you're the boss of your game. Make it epic. Uh...

All right, that's a wrap for today's 7 Maven Minute Shortcast.

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Hope you had a enjoyed and picked up some tips for your adventure ahead. I'm Jamal reminding you to set your rules, read with a purpose, learn from others, and keep rolling towards your dreams. Catch you next time.