Random Responses Secretly Guiding You (179) - Daily MINI-CAST with Kim & Jill

Ever been baffled by a random response in conversation? Discover the hidden wisdom behind these perplexing moments.

In this episode, Kim and Jill delve into those puzzling interactions where someone responds with seemingly unrelated comments. They explore how such exchanges might actually serve as subconscious cues steering us away from negative or unproductive paths. By shifting our perspective on these encounters, we can break bad conversational habits without even trying.

Key Takeaways:
- Recognize random responses as signs to redirect your thoughts positively.
- Understand that disengagement may reflect deeper listening and care.
- Embrace unexpected replies as opportunities for personal growth and self-awareness.

Tune in to uncover why sometimes it's best to just let it entertain you!

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Hello, lovely listeners and good morning, Kim. Good morning, Jill. Good morning, everyone.

Today's message that's coming through is, okay, let this come and figure out the words again. So you're going to be talking to somebody today and they're going to, you're going to say, you know what, man, last night I struggled to sleep. Da, da, da. And all of a sudden they're over there, plug you in, plug you in. Some random saying and you're like, what? Had nothing to do at all. Completely threw you into a state of. I'm like, did they even hear me? Like, and then you want to repeat yourself. You want to say, you know, I said I had trouble sleeping last night. And they're like, clap on, clap off. And again you're like, huh? And then they walk away. You're like, what just happened here? Random responses and no engagement. Like, am I seeing this? Like, what is going on?

And basically they're saying it's to help get you almost distracted or get you out of where you were going. Like, your talk, your conversation was actually going to end up leading down a more of a negative path or more of a non educational, non purposeful path. And it was just for you to kind of ramble on about something or complain about something. They're like, yeah, we're done with that today.

So if you come across somebody that you're saying something and they just randomly talk about something that has nothing to do at all, take that as your sign. Okay, I need to shift up where my mind is at, where what I'm thinking today because it's going down the wrong path. You know, it's like breaking bad habits without even having to try.

Yeah. You know, I mean honestly like filling in conversation with something that's not really productive is just a bad habit.

Yep. And so yeah, you know I want to talk about that. I didn't sleep last night to you Kim and you just won't engage.

You are helping me break a bad habit.

Yep.

But we want to go right away—the old system was to—they're not listening to me; they don't care about me.

And in reality they're actually caring and listening to you on such a deeper subconscious level that sometimes it's hard for us to even see that.

Yeah.

Yeah that'll be.

Yeah like you said initially the reaction when you experience it—and you will—I know exactly what you're talking about because I've experienced it a lot actually the last probably couple of months I'd say.

Okay.

And it's odd at first but eventually it gets really very helpful. It's very calm. It's very peaceful. It's just like—it's like a very quiet nope nope nope—that's not what you want; you're not looking to create that.

And so as that person walks away you—you—you feel—you know the nope—and you just kind of pull your energies back in.

Well what is it that I want?

Exciting.

Yeah.

It's going to be interesting now.

Now I want to pay attention to all the fun stuff that I'm going to hear.

Exactly.

Let it entertain you. Have it be funny. Don't get frustrated or judge it or anything. Just go huh okay.

Yep.

I had used the metaphor of fishing; it's like you're fishing—didn't catch anything there—okay right?

When you don't catch anything you just don't catch anything.

Yeah.

You know—you just move on—try a different—try a different fishing hole—try a different something and see what's—you know start telling someone about your dreams about something you want to create or something you are creating—and all of a sudden they're highly engaged—and you'll see that people will engage with you on those more as we're calling it like more positive things.

Yeah.

And they'll just kind of walk away on those more—I don't know if they're negative but we'll call them that.

Yeah.

Cool chills—I do too.

Well thank you Kim. Thank you Jill. Thank you everyone.

Yes thank you for listening. Have fun with this today and until next time.