The Volumes of the Past are in Your Face

🎙️ Episode 37: Relationship Mirrors: When the Past Meets Present 🎙️

In this profound and thought-provoking episode, hosts Kim and Jill explore the powerful ways our past experiences shape our current relationships. Together, they unravel the phenomenon of projecting past relationship dynamics onto current partners, using personal anecdotes and observations to illustrate this common, yet often unconscious, behavior.

Listeners will gain insight into:

• How unresolved issues with parents and ex-partners can influence current relationships

• The concept of "projection" and its impact on communication and connection

• The importance of openness and non-judgment in navigating complex relationship dynamics

Through their engaging conversation, Kim and Jill emphasize the value of mindful observation and simply "being with" situations, rather than reacting or trying to fix them. Tune in and open your heart and ears, as this episode may require a second listen to fully absorb its depth.

Key Takeaway: Embracing awareness and presence in our relationships can help us break free from the past and cultivate deeper connections in the present.

🎉 Bonus: Keep an ear out for the symbolic surprise visitor towards the end of the episode! 🎉

Recommended for anyone seeking to understand their relationships more deeply and foster personal growth.

👉 Listen now and let us know your thoughts and experiences with this topic in the comments! 👈

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Good morning, lovely listeners, and good morning, Kim. Good morning, Jill. Good morning, everyone. We've got some heavy hitters coming in this week, right? It's like folding together a couple of days' messages into this next stab. Yes. So, I'm gonna have you put your listening ears on today because this one's a little bit deeper, a little bit heavier. So, I want you to listen with open ears and open heart.

There has been an uptake that Jill has seen in her friends and family around her, and I've seen clients and, like, all over the place. We're seeing this all over. Yeah. People that have past experiences that are really being brought up, and they're reflecting it or they're pushing it onto their relationships with another person.

So, we could pick on us, Jill and I. Okay, let's do it. Let's do it. So, say I was Jill's husband. Wow, different role today. Jill, do this. No, that's not how he is, you guys. No, not at all. And for him, he's gonna go back to a state of... so I'm gonna play this part. I'm gonna go back to a state where maybe I'm having an issue with my father, but I'm gonna project that onto Jill, and Jill is actually gonna represent my father.

And vice versa, Jill would look at me, so this would be like her husband, and it would be, "No, oh, her family." Okay, so, who, say that you have problems with your mom. Let's just pick on that. So, you have problems with your mom, so he's going to represent your mom to you. So, what he says back to you is kind of like...

(Conversation continues)

Just, yeah, be in that open space. It's... I can, I can feel that. I'm just like on the edge of, it's like I'm just barely on the edge of feeling it, like it's just getting started, and it's phenomenal. I can't imagine... which is how big it is, to just be with something, how incredible that is. With things, yep, and things will work out. Yeah.

Listening ears, I'm telling you, this is a listening ears one. There's a lot in this one. You might have to go back and listen to it again to, like, understand it maybe deeper. Just absorb it. Just absorb it deeper. Yeah. Yep, now all these images of, say, relationships in my life, there doesn't have to be a husband-wife relationship. This could be a friendship with another person, that relationship, and I'm looking at these people, like, "Wow, I just... I'm not supposed to say anything. I'm just to be with it, be okay, non-judgmental, and it'll work out exactly how it's supposed to work out. I don't need to put my two cents into this." They're good.

Yep, listening in. Can you hear that bird? Yes, I can. That's an eagle. Oh, wow. Yeah. Wow. Who do you need the eagle today? There you go. Yep. All right. That's some beautiful, beautiful final words. Yep.

I will say, Kim, I believe listening to this one again is key. Yeah. Yeah. Well, thank you, Kim. Yeah, thank you, Jill. Thank you, everyone. All right, until next time.