Ever feel the sting of a missed connection and let it spiral into self-doubt? You're not alone!

In this enlightening episode, hosts Kim and Jill delve into the emotional rollercoaster of social interactions. Through an engaging role-play exercise, they explore how our minds often craft stories from simple encounters that can lead to unnecessary self-judgment. Discover why it's important to trust in the natural flow of energy rather than getting caught up in burdensome narratives.

Key takeaways include:
- Understanding that not every encounter is meant for connection.
- Learning to embrace awkward moments without judgment.
- Trusting your energy's guidance over fabricated stories.

Tune in now to learn how letting go can transform your social experiences!

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Hello, lovely listeners and good morning, Kim. Good morning, Jill. Good morning, everyone. It's Jill again. One harmonical for another message.

Today's message, we're gonna do some role play. You imagine yourself walking into a crowd. You're walking into the crowd. It's all these people that you know. And you're excited. Maybe you're excited to see them. Maybe you're a little bit like, I haven't seen these people for a while, but you're going into a crowd, ah, I really want to see this person or I want to see that person.

And you're walking up to somebody and you make eye contact. The eye contact's there that you're like, yes. Okay, step one, eye contact has been made.

All right, step two, you're starting to feel the energy that's going between you two. And you're like, okay, okay. Like you might have a little hesitation or you might have a little thought that comes to your head, like, oh, some nervousness. Like, what am I going to say? What am I going to talk about? I haven't talked to this person for a while.

And then you're like, okay, kind of coming up with a story of how are you going to approach this person? Like, what are you going to say to this person? So you're coming up with this big story in your head. Okay. And you're kind of getting excited.

Next thing you know, the person turns away, beelines up for somebody else. You're like, wait, huh? And now you're standing there by yourself.

Yeah. Wait, what does that mean? We just made eye contact. You seen I was coming towards you and then they're gone.

And you get this and you think back to the feeling that you're getting. You started feeling a little like nervousness, like, what am I going to say? And then you didn't know what you were going to say, but then you're like, okay, I'm just going to say hello. You know the story—the typical how you go up to somebody and then it's gone.

Yeah. Oh, what do we do in that situation?

What I would say most of us in the past, or maybe some of you still do this is sit there and start doing some self judging.

Did I put off a vibe? Did I... Did they not see me? Did... Like, what? Do I stink? Oh my gosh.

Like, you start creating this story of why.

Yeah.

Is my aura putting off a vibe of just stage?

But no, it really comes down to we did some self judgment in the past.

Like, what did I do wrong? Did they not want to talk to me? Did it... like what’s the story behind it?

And then you get like almost... well fine, they didn't want to talk to me then.

Like okay are they mad at me now?

You start thinking did I do something wrong to them that I don't remember?

Or did they... did I say something about them somewhere else and now they heard about it?

Like you start coming up with your own story and it goes deeper and deeper into the story.

And what I hear—it doesn't actually matter.

It really comes down to the place where at that time in that moment you weren't meant to actually communicate with each other at that time in that moment.

Really doesn't matter.

It's like you didn't put off a bad vibe.

They didn't put off a bad vibe.

It was just like energetically there was no purpose or no meaning or no direction as to the reason why you actually had to come together.

So what I actually saw was like two angels coming in there and saying hey,

like you don't actually need to connect right now.

Your energies are not at the same level.

Like it's okay—go your own ways.

Right?

So that's so beautiful—the energetic—

like you said energetically there wasn't a need to come together.

And then your description there of the angels—

that feels so peaceful and calm.

Yeah.

Meanwhile contrast that with the story that was going to be made up in the judgment

and that does not feel calm.

You know what happened?

What do I do?

What is it?

It's actually very harmful.

There's like a lot of harm in the story.

There's a lot of harm in the self judgment,

in the energy—

you know reading the energy realm if you will—

it's just so calm.

It's just—that's what it is.

Like you said—you two just weren't supposed to come together at that moment.

And then just being aware of even that,

you know okay so that moment—

some people might have this experience—

that moment when there's the eye contact and then you separate

and you're standing there and you're by yourself

so there might be a moment of awkwardness

and you just feel that awkwardness

you don't judge it—nothing

you just sit with that awkwardness

and then you do whatever next

it's like riding the waves,

say of the ocean

the energies are like a wave

you just ride them and play with them as we say

Exactly.

There is—I get there's more to the story that could be there

but they're like again it doesn't matter

it's trusting

and believing that your energy is guiding you to something different

doesn't mean it's better nor worse

it just means that you're just being guided into a different direction

Believe that,

trust that,

and know that

just let it go—to trust it.

The alternative—I would suggest—that we choose—all of us choose—to trust that energy,

because the alternative is to spin those stories

and those stories become very big and they become very burdensome

because if we go down the path of the story as to why did this happen,

why did that happen,

we're going to start creating something in our mind and then we have to hold that

and we have to carry it and we have to remember it

and then the next time when we see that person,

we have to reference it

and it gets very very heavy

and the next time we see that person,

there might not be any sort of awkwardness at all

you might just walk right up and have a great conversation

If you engage the energy now,

that makes the future much easier too

It's just engaging the energy—it’s so easy—easeful

it's just that we tend not to engage the energy;

we engage the very burdensome stories

Yes.

Alright.

So have fun with engagements today—engaging energy

Yep—watch it float on by

Watch your angels support,

guide you,

assist you along your journey today

Yeah!

Oh that's sweet—very calm,

very peaceful,

very flowy

Yes.

Thank you Kim,

Thank you Jill,

Thank you everyone.

Alright until next time.